"Don't
be afraid!"
"Peace on earth!"
The words of the Christmas angels seem to take on a new perspective this
year. In the midst of a fearful and war-torn world, we send you greetings
of peace and hope in the name of the Prince of Peace whose birthday celebration
we anticipate in this special season of the year.
Goldenrod
has been a unique vantage point from which to watch and reflect on the
unfolding events of the world. Working with a variety of persons with
special needs convinces us more than ever that when people feel safe and
loved, we can build positive relationships. To reach the goal of peace,
we need to sow the seeds of peace.
We are also aware of our weakness and failure and how easy it is to fall
back into the tit for tat, rewards and punishment systems that permeate
our society. To love unconditionally, we must look to Jesus as our model
and our Savior, the one who came to break the cycle of violence in our
fearful and broken world.
In January of this year, we welcomed our third resident to Goldenrod
to fill out our household. In March, we welcomed the women residents and
caregivers across the hall on the other side of our duplex. In April,
we had groundbreaking for a second duplex,
which we anticipate being completed in the spring. So our community is
growing and that growth is likely to accelerate in 2002--if we can find
caregivers.
We have also developed new routines that go along with our rural lifestyle.
Our barn that was begun with a great barnraising
in November 2000 is now complete and we have two burros and some chickens
to feed. Of course, the garden (aka "truck patch") also provided us with
much activity over the summer.
Along with a full house have also come a wonderful assortment of hourly
support staff who work many afternoons, helping with the cleaning and
cooking and laundry and just spending some time with "our guys" so we
can finish up our administrative work.
Speaking of administrative work, much has changed over the summer. Our
organization was restructured to centralize all functions in our office
in Goshen. I (Paul) still work out of an office in our basement, but Nancy
now divides her time between Middlebury and Goshen.
Our children continue to grow and develop each in their unique ways!
Although we have the common (and hopefully appropriate) parental worries
for this stage of life, those concerns are certainly overwhelmed by the
wonder and joy of seeing our children become young adults.
Renita
is now a junior at DePauw
University, continuing her studies in communications with an emphasis
on photo-journalism. She enjoys college life and we were glad to meet
some of her friends as they visited us during fall break.
Renita's big news is that next semester she will be doing a journalism
internship in New York City. Her program is based in the heart of Manhattan
and she is hoping to confirm her exact assignment any day now. She is
excited to be going to New York and has already traveled there by herself
for interviews. Her parents have to remind themselves occasionally that
she is an adult now (she'll turn 21 while she's there), did grow up in
the city, and, above all, that her life, like all of ours, is in God's
hands.
Meanwhile,
Nathan is quite contented with our little corner of Amish farmland in
Elkhart County, Indiana. He is adjusting more and more to life with two
housemates and a variety of caregivers besides just his parents. He is
even getting more involved in our daily ritual of feeding the burros and
the chickens and collecting the eggs.
Nathan has now been working in the kitchen at Oaklawn Psychiatric Center
Hospital for over a year. He has generally done quite well and continues
to enjoy his job. We were disappointed that his hours were cut back this
summer and are still hoping he can regain at least some of them.
Nathan also enjoys his job retention group where he and his friends socialize
and learn additional skills. The group even has its own newspaper, so
he is joining his sister in the world of journalism by writing simple
reviews of his favorite music and movies. Bowling is his favorite sport,
indeed something that all three guys in our household enjoy.
Nancy was offered a full-time administrative job with our parent organization,
MDC, during the
restructuring over the summer. However, with our current commitment to
caregiving and the lack of others to fill that role, we have all had to
be creative and realistic at the same time. Suffice it to say that Nancy
is busy as Residential Manager on the way to becoming Program Director
and we continue to seek God's guidance in what all that means.
Meanwhile,
relationships with extended family have provided some sparkle, particularly
for Nancy and Renita. Nancy's great-nephew, Justin, was born in nearby
South Bend and over the summer, Renita was the main babysitter. As the
summer went on, Justin got to spend many a Friday at Goldenrod where his
great-aunt enjoyed him as well. Meanwhile, the first great-niece, who
lives in Germany, was joined by a baby sister born on Nancy's birthday
in September! And, with the wonders of the Internet, Nancy even got a
picture on the very day!
My job title is now Community Relations & Special Events Manager.
My biggest job has been to coordinate our annual Goldenrod
Benefit Auction. It has been amazing how a little coordination has
been able to turn the efforts of dozens of wonderful volunteers into thousands
of dollars desperately needed for our ongoing work. In the process, I
am getting to relate more to churches, pastors, and key advocates for
persons with disabilities.
I'm keeping some other options open as well. Companion
Resources continues to get just enough attention to keep the website
up and running, to write the monthly newsletter, and to service a client
or two and sell a few items in my Internet "stores." In the past two months,
I'm doing more music, both at our church and also substituting as organist
occasionally in another local church.
Nancy and I also continue to be called upon to give workshops, and I
get asked to preach occasionally as well. Our big event for the summer
was again a half-week retreat for families, friends, and persons with
disabilities. We led the music for worship and I led two sessions on life
planning around the needs of family members with disabilities. Then we
visited friends in Virginia to top off our week of vacation from Goldenrod.
As for church,
it seems like we always come back to a "First Mennonite Church." We joined
the one in Middlebury (our third "First Mennonite") on the first Sunday
of the new millenium. Our residents feel comfortable there and one of
the routines our household looks forward to is a weekly Wednesday evening
fellowship meal. The congregation has been outstanding even among the
many churches, ranging from Amish to Lutheran, that support the work at
Goldenrod. We could not do what we do without their support.
This
letter is also to thank you for your prayers and support. We are blessed
at the variety of family and friends that God has placed into our lives.
Each of you has enriched us in some special way and that reminds us again
of Emmanuel--"God with us." May you also experience the wonder and joy
of the season as you carry out the work to which you have been called.
Peace,
Paul & Nancy Leichty, Nathan & Renita
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